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• Communication & Relaxation
Are keys for the most erotic & pleasurable anal experience. Both you and your partner should have a middle ground, both of you need to be relaxed and open for discussion. Vanishing both your fears and straightening out any myths are essential, especially if one or both of you are concerned about it.
• Being Clean Is Nice
Before and after anal play, and everyday it is important to clean the anus. The anus is the final stop of our digestive system, accidents may & can happen. A few people may not mind of a little speck but for some it is the beginning of the end. A soapy finger during shower is the most common and effective way to clean your anus but remember this is not a guarantee that you will not encounter any surprises. You may also consider using an Anal Douche. An anal douche is ideally more effective than a soapy finger, it squirts your rectum with warm water and flushes out traces of your last john visit plus the warm water filling you up & leaving your rectum has a pleasurable effect within your tract.
• An Anal Lubricant Is Essential
Since the anus is not self lubricating, you have got to bring your own. The more lube you use, the better. Penetration is much easier and less painful, it's a truly satisfying experience for both partners when lubrication is used during anal sex play. Basic lubes such as Penthouse Black Label Anal Lube or Doc Johnson Anal Lubricant help prepare and moisturize the anus before penetration. There are anal lubes with a more watery texture such as the Adam & Eve Anal Lube. If you are worried about pain during anal sex but still would like to try, you may want to consider using a desentizing lube, try Rear Entry this lube help eliminate some pain if you still can't control your anal muscles. Keep in mind that a product like this should be used with precaution. This type of lube cause you numbness and when you are numb you are not able to tell pain or if you are doing damage to yourself. Care and moderation should always be a priority when using these anal desensitizing lubes.
Whenever partners are ready to perform anal sex neither one should rush into penetration. The anal muscles are tighter than the vaginal muscles. By forcing penetration your partner will feel pain. Massage the anal muscle and slowly introduce a finger or a thin anal butt plug. You may want to try an anal kit. Juli Ashton's Anal Beginner's Kit, a perfect kit for a beginner's first anal experience. It includes 3 butt plugs starting from the smallest for your first time and then 1 medium size when you get a little courageous and then gradually the largest when you are used to the sensation. Then insert another finger, in no time at all you can accommodate additional girth for a more pleasurable sensation. Remember practice makes perfect! If you feel pain this means that your sphincters are not ready and relaxed. Your body's telling you to slow down or try again another time.
Enjoying the pleasures of anal sex does not mean that you have to do a full penetration to feel its incredible sensations. Here are some suggestions - To a Man
- insert your finger or a butt plug in her anus while giving clitoral pleasure either by oral, hand or vibrator stimulation. This will enhance her pleasure and bring her to climax. A woman can massage or insert a finger into her man's anus while performing oral sex to maximize his orgasm.
NOTE: If your partner does not want you to penetrate her in the anus but still want to enjoy some kind of anal play, let a thin butt plug do the trick for you. The slender butt plug is much easier to accommodate inside her anus than the actual penis due to it's slender size and it's flexible material.
Anal Starter Sex Toys
| Our site has different varieties of butt plugs. There are glass, jelly, plastic, anal plugs, chains and beads. Here are some of our featured anal toys: |
- Anal Starter- This Six inch Anal Starter butt plug is slender enough for a novice.
- Vibrating Pleasure Beads - This vibrating set of flexible anal beads is also a great novice toy. It is extremely thin at the tip and graduates to just at 3/4" at the largest bead (starting from a mere 1/2" bead at the tip).
- Anal Swirl - This is our most slender probe style toy. Don't let the picture fool you! It's largest point is approximately 5/8" across.
- Basix Mini Butt Plug - This is a good way to start. This butt plug's size is slender, the jelly material is soft and smooth, ideal for a beginner.
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Couple Vaginal & Anal Penetration:
| If you want her to purr like a kitten insert a butt plug to her anus while penetrating her vagina with your penis. To add extra excitement wear a cock ring that is designed to stimulate the clitoris or have her hold a stimulator or plastic vibrator against her clitoris.
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Double Penetration:
| For a woman who does not have a partner but would still like the feeling of double penetration (vagina and anus) this can be achieved by inserting a butt plug to the anus while playing with a vibrator on the vaginal area or choosing one from our exciting double penetrating toys: |
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