Your mouth is wrapped around him, you’re licking all the right places and applying the perfect amount of suction, naughtily staring up into his eyes, but he just… can’t… orgasm.
The longer you go, your jaw starts to hurt, your mouth gets tired, your hand starts to ache… There’s no reason for any of this! YOU can make him explode in mere minutes, perhaps less if necessary!
Try these tricks:
• Wrap your hand around the shaft of his penis and instead of just stroking up and down, also twist your wrist back and forth. This gives completely different sensations, and if you move your hand differently with each stroke, he’ll never know what’s coming to him!
• Stroke and massage his scrotum. LIGHTLY squeeze and pull downwards, away from his body. Although some men are overly sensitive, most will LOVE this!
• Stroke, tickle, and apply pressure to his perineum (that little stretch of skin between his scrotum and his anus). Although you’re not directly stimulating the prostate, it will still send the sensations rippling through his body.
• With a well-lubed finger, probe around his anus (or insert your finger, if he’ll let you). If you’re inside, you can apply light pressure to his prostate by making a “come hither” motion with your finger (motioning upwards, towards his scrotum). You’ll know when you’ve found it! (hint - it's a walnut sized lump approximately 2 inches in towards the stomach)
• Massage his rear end. With strong hands, grasp and knead his cheeks while sucking deeply inward. Switch to light strokes down his rear and the back of his legs, almost tickling. Be sure NOT to actually tickle him, it will definitely ruin his concentration!
• Twirl your tongue around the head of his already overly sensitive penis. Not like a porn star or a starved child with a lollipop, but slowly and purposefully, lingering and even fluttering your tongue at the very base of the corona (the head) underneath. This is the most sensitive tissue on the penis.
• While sucking deep into your mouth (or throat if you can control your gag reflex), don’t forget to keep up with the fluttering or roaming tongue movement. This stimulates the sensitive flesh on the underside of the penis.
• If your man is uncircumcised, take full advantage of this situation and lick and suck with both foreskin up and foreskin down. Some men even enjoy if the foreskin is up to tease around the head of his penis between the foreskin and the head. Then you can use your mouth to retract the foreskin again.
If you’ve done all of this and it’s still not working, perhaps he’s just not into oral? I know, that sounds crazy, but everyone does have their own likes and dislikes, and although some actually like the act of oral sex, some cannot physically climax from it.
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