|The 69, also known by its French name soixante-neuf (sixty-nine) or the Congress of the Crow, is a sexual activity. In this position, two people orient themselves such that each person's mouth is near the other's genitals, simultaneously performing oral sex. This position can be performed in opposite-sex or same-sex pairings.
This can be done lying down, one on top of the other or side by side. Alternatively, one partner can stand while holding the other upside down. In this position, the genitals are approached from the opposite direction, allegedly creating a sensation different from that of ordinary oral sex.
In an act of 69 that includes a female partner, her clitoris is licked, possibly through the clitoral hood, which provides a buffer if the clitoris is too sensitive for direct stimulation. If a male partner is present, his frenulum rubs against the roof of the performing partner's mouth, while the foreskin and the front of the glans may be stimulated by their tongue.
In an act of 69 between a male and a female partner, the female may choose to be on top so that she can control how deep the penis enters her (deep throating) to avoid gagging.
One variation on 69 includes digital penetration of either partner's anus or vagina.
The position carries the benefit of allowing partners to experience sexual stimulation simultaneously, but this can also distract those who try to focus solely on pleasuring themselves. The position can sometimes be awkward for partners who are not similar in height.
It's uncomfortable and inconvenient to engage in a position where partners are upside down or mutually orally stimulated.
If you are performing the 69 position correctly, you'll end up incorporating this sweet sexual foreplay into many of your sessions. There are many varying positions in which to participate in this buffet for two; the key is to ensure comfort!
Larger women cannot be in the on-top position while engaged in the 69 position.
In the 69 position, with the angles of your body, it is impossible to “smother” a partner because the “top” has their knees bent forward and they are in a “bent over” position, causing the body to curve upward where the nose would be.
Two heavier individuals cannot 69 due to body size restrictions.
Even if overall weight is a factor, you may still lay on your sides in a 69 position with your lower leg outstretched and the female’s upper leg wrapped upwards around your partner.
WOMAN on TOP
There's nothing like wrapping your arms around the back of her thighs and those voluptuous butt cheeks, whilst spreading her legs apart so that you can suck up every last ounce of that succulent juice. As well, you can lick her from the back of her vagina (or further!) up to the sweet, sensitive clitoris.
All the while, she'll be on her knees, with her mouth covering your member wholeheartedly and her hands doing their best to massage and stroke your testicles.
How will you know that she's enjoying every moment of what you're doing? Well, she'll likely be making certain rhythmic movements, as well as those oh-so-welcome erotic sounds. Also, if she stops giving your manhood the sucking it deserves for a few seconds, that's because she's preparing herself for the ultimate Big O. It's at this point that you should be using your fingers to massage every hole that you can find down there.
She has control because she's on top.
She can move her vagina deep into your mouth as she pleases.
You can use your fingers to explore within while you suck on her vagina like a human vacuum.
Depending on how much she weighs, she can possibly cut off the circulation in your body, hence turning your solid member into a flailing leaf.
You have less control over the situation (use a pillow to keep your head propped up).
She may tire quickly from having to lean on her elbows or hands.
She might end up having rug burns on her knees from the friction (something to remember you by).
MAN on TOP
Now if you're the one on top, things change somewhat. First off, you'll be leaning into her sweet treat and your face will be in immediate contact with her clitoris. Like I mentioned before, you can take things at a slower pace and lick her from the clitoris to the end of her vagina.
She, on the other hand, can put your member deep down her throat. And since her hands are free, she will have more liberty to maneuver and venture into areas like the Male G-Spot (the Prostate).
You have a lot of control in this given position.
She can venture around your body parts in ways like never before.
You can ram your member down her throat at will (I'm kidding guys, you know better)
You could suffocate her easily if your pleasure takes over your realistic train of thought.
You might strain your neck if you keep struggling to lick her deep within.
Once she puts your penis in her mouth, she could have a hard time getting it out considering you'll probably have a tendency to want to keep it in there.
WOMAN on WOMAN & MAN on MAN
Honestly, your reactions and specifications will be the same as above, however, you’ll be combining both Man on Top and Woman on Top instructions.
The following guides give you information on positions you can use no matter what sexual combination you may choose!
Although this usually requires a very strong individual with the stamina of Hercules (okay, slight exaggeration), it is nonetheless quite an experience. Now this isn't for everyone, but those who are willing to try anything once, hop on the bandwagon!
In this position, you'll be holding her upside down by her ribs or waist whilst standing. Because her legs are open and there's no platform underneath her, you can delve into her garden like a dog in heat. Also, you can perform this position while on your knees, that way you won't necessarily have to hold her up the entire time.
As well, she can suck your member quite well, and because she'll be holding onto your legs (or the ground), she can rock her mouth in and out the whole time.
She'll be impressed by your strength and stamina.
You can really lick and suck at ease in this position.
Getting into this position may be awkward from the get go.
The blood may rush to her head fairly quickly.
You may tire very easily.
You could end up holding on too tight and may break one of her ribs (again, I'm kidding).
SIDE by SIDE
This is probably the best 69 position to ever come about. Men and women alike rant and rave about what a wonderful and viable position it is.
In this position, you and your woman lay in opposite directions but side by side. Thus, your face, as usual, will be in direct contact with her vagina, and her face will be facing The Ladies' Fan (or penis if you like).
Because no one is putting their weight on the other, this position remains comfortable and you can even look at one another while doing your thing. You're not dominating the situation and neither is she - it's perfectly equal.
You don't have to worry about hurting her with your weight.
You can use your hand to rub the outline of her body or rub her breasts, nipples, tummy, and all that good stuff.
She can rub her hand down your back and massage your thighs in the midst of her private performance.
You can watch her inhale you (and which guy doesn't like to watch, huh? Huh?).
There may be a lot of fluid dripping down the side of your face (but for most, that's not such a disadvantage after all).
And so there you have it. The world's most popular number finally realized and defined in detail. Remember, when you orgasm, don't forget about her; instead hold her tight or suck her juices until she yells out in ecstasy.
Until next time, mention 68 to your partner and then tell them you'll owe ‘em one!
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